Thursday, May 22, 2014

A Cute Letter from a newly married girl to her mother.......................

A Cute Letter from a newly married girl to her mother.......................


Dear mom,
Like every normal girl, I was excited about marriage right from my childhood days. I never thought beyond the time that I would spend happily with my prince charming. 
But today when I am married, I realize that marriage is not all roses. It’s not just about being with your beloved and having a gala time. There is so much more to it. It comes with its own share of responsibilities, duties, sacrifices and compromises.

I can’t wake up anytime I want to.
I am expected to be up and ready before everyone else in the family.
I can’t laze around in my pyjamas throughout the day.
I am expected to be presentable every time.
I can’t just go out anytime I want to.
I am expected to be sensitive to the needs of the family.
I just can’t hit the bed anytime I want to.
I am expected to be active and around the family.
I can’t expect to be treated like a princess but am supposed to take care of everyone else in the family.

And then I think to myself, ‘why did I get married at all?’ I was happier with you, mom. Sometimes I think of coming back to you and getting pampered again.

I want to come home to my favourite food cooked by you every evening after a nice outing with friends. I want to sleep on your laps like I have no worry in this world. But then I suddenly realize, had you not got married and made such sacrifices in your life, I wouldn’t have had so many wonderful memories to hang on to. And suddenly, the purpose of all this becomes clear- to return the same comfort, peace and happiness to my new family that I got from you.

And I am sure that as time would pass, I would start loving this life equally as you do. Thank you mom for all the sacrifices and compromises you made. They give me the strength to do the same. Love you.

It's an excellent letter for all daughters!!!!!






Wednesday, April 23, 2014

A small change is sometimes all it takes to bring about the big changes in life. Lets try .....

Sometimes, you might be feeling bad about your own life because of your own misconceptions and wrong perceptions. You might be better than you think you are, you might be worthy of so much more than you think are capable of doing, you might be more deserving than you ever think of yourself to be. To change your perception and realize your true potential, you sometimes need to change your life's condition. This need not be done dramatically, but you could start with small steps, change in the people you talk to, change in the things that you do, change in your habits, or any small change just to try and see if it brings any change in your life.
A small change is sometimes all it takes to bring about the big changes in life  Lets try